I am Dominant, and I make Mistakes

Today I chatted with a sub I met here the first month I joined. Several months ago I was in a very dark place. 12/17 I was fired from my job, spring 18 divorce finally done after over an 18 month battle, learning to provide for my family on one income etc. I needed to be spoiled, and have some of the weight lifted from me.  This sub can be needy, and not very piggy like, which is usually a mild annoyance. 

 But several months ago I basically cut him off with not much more than a Twitter fuck off. Was I right to do so? Sure if I had actually expressed that fact that my load is heavy and couldn’t currently bear more. Explained that he needed to pick up the slack etc. I wasn’t clear with my expectations. So in fact I was wrong....  it’s taken me awhile to marinate all of this. 

I reached out a while ago, and today I heard back. We chatted, about what happened, our past together. He expressed his hurt, at what I had done to him, and I apologized. Because I was wrong, am I still dominant? Fuck yes!  Will he serve me again? I don’t know.  I hurt him pretty badly and he’s semi retired from FD. But we all know how that goes😉

 just wanted to say that a true D/s dynamic goes both ways. Make sure you are clear and concise with what your expectations are, they cannot serve us if they don’t know the expectation.  Have a lovely Sunday.