Not so Secret after all.

I get asked offen enough what are my secrets to success espicially in this industry. 

Patiences 

If I find a sub who has a mind and a way of thinking that can keep my attention, I will enjoy the exchange of conversation and wait for a connection. Anyone who dominates from the few message doesn’t seem to understand the power behind the wait. 

I have been doing this since 2001. I will only approach a sub if something they have done warrents a compliment. In person a choice of clothing. I compliment with a smile and polite conversation and walk away. If he is interested from that point on he will come to me. If online, the profile may have been well written. I want to get to know this person so I compliment his/her work. Nothing more and nothing less.

Consistent

I can’t repeat myself enough with this one. I have only taken one break from this fetish once. From that point on I post on Twitter, my website, findomdisord and other places all the time. Why? To show I am active. To show that I am me and my personality behind the Dominant.