Questions Dommes should ask all new subs.

This is a list of some of the questions I ask any new sub. His/Her answers determine if I will allow them to serve me.

1- What is your experience in the BDSM world? New subs have to be trained and guided. They need extra time and tasks require more research.

2- Do you have a stable environment around you? Meaning does this person have a job, are they capable of paying their bills...

3- Are they married? Again getting to know if you need to worry about the family as well.

4- Do they have a family? Again who do you need to worry about.

5- What are their kinks? These need to match your own other than just findom.

6- Why do they believe you are a good fit for them? If they can't answer this walk away.

7- How old are they? Some subs tend to sneak onto a site and are underage. Pay attention.

Note: Ask them questions with an open answer. Remember How, Why and What. If you ask questions with yes or no answers they are not going to give you the information you need to find the right match with a sub. Test his mental state this way as well. If all you are getting are three word answers my dear their brain is not really submissive to you. They are horny and more than likely wasting your time. Send them to your clip store. These are just an example of what you can ask. Really take the time to set up your own questions as it will help you weed out the people only in it for play.