Tips if you are new to the scene.

I thought I would add some answers to questions I get asked all the time. Here are just a few:

Where do I find subs? I get asked this all the time. What worked for me may not work for you. However, google is your best friend. Use it to search for fetishes you are comfortable with and find a place that is lacking or has little compention. The boom pounce on it and have fun. You will be surpirsed how fast you can succeed this way.

What am I doing wrong. Why am I not getting tributed in my first day? Believe it or not these two are the most common. Be patient. Being a Domme is like being a fisherman where subs are the fish. Produce content and put it out there. The more you produce and the better quality the sooner you will be seen and the fish will bite. However if you just post two tweets and then complain that you are not being paid. My dear you just scared off for fish.

How will I succeed? This is another common question that is easily answered but not easily followed. Be YOU. No one can be YOU better than you can. Find a mentor but don’t copy their style. Find you style and rock it. 

Why is this so tough? Being a Domme isn’t easy. It is work. I work about 30 hours a week on content, videos, and guides. All of which isn’t paid hourly. The other 10 hours is spent cultivating and training the subs/slaves/fans that I do have. It is a full time job of which I set the hours and I throughly love doing. I don’t see it as work. I see it as 40 hours of play time for me. So to me this isn’t tough. Change your point of view.

I just want the money, how do I get it? Uhm, you are not going to get it if you are only here for the cash. You may get a few but because money is your only point they will run away. I am not a babysitter but my subs know they can communicate with me. Such as one sub who has been sick for 2 days messaged me this morning. We had planned a slow drain but he is sick. I told him to rest and when he is better we will play. Why? Because I am not having fun if he can not enjoy it to. It really is that simple for me. And he thanked me for my kindness. He is usually one to play once with a Domme and run off to the next yet he has kept in contact for 3 weeks now. 

So again in the end be YOU. Rock being you. When you are doing this they will take notice!