Always below my stature.

As a Goddess I should always be above you. You must feel like you can look up to me as a mentor, not fear me. You should be looking to befriend me but also feel inferior. Why do I say this?

Because lately, I have seen Domme's giving away ownership like it is just a bag of candy. Yes, that works for some but not all. To me, ownership is just like a marriage. It should not be taken lightly. There has to be a strong bond formed through friendship or common interests that are outside kink. I have had subs serving me for almost two years without me asking them to be my owned slave.

It has nothing to do with how well they have served or not. It has to do with the pull to fully dominate. It has to do with responsibility and time. Do I have the time to full-fill their needs as much as do they have time for mine? Are they stable enough to handle my sarcasm in and out of kink? Do our conversations flow easily between kink and non-kink? Is the trust between the two of us strong enough to handle my mood swings? 

Does this mean that I do not accept the subs who just want to play every once in awhile? By all means step in my DMs and say hello. If we share kinks and you are respectful then by all means but let me know from the start that you just want to play. 

See along with all of this there is a thing called communication. I don't message a sub first anymore after it was brought to my attention that this could scare a sub as they fill intimidated or have already received the 100th message of "Pay me no bitch!" from the first message that the moment a new Domme approaches they are like "Oh god another one." Besides I am finding in much more interesting to lay bait just like this and see who has to balls or boobs (yes I said it) to message me first.

I don't ask for tributes right away but I do expect you to be read when I do and to know what payment options I have. If you don't know ask, so you are ready when I do ask. Sorry dear but given that warning, if I ask for a tribute and you don't I will block you because you have shown that you don't respect me. I don't tolerate that.