What I Think About as a Sub

I ‘ve noticed lately that some Dommes are seeking to see subs writing blogs. I’m not good at writing, so please bear with me as I have decided to give it a try and share my thoughts as a sub. In Findom, many Dommes make it clear from the beginning that they will not do sessions when a sub pays, which is something I believe many subs don’t have a problem with. But most subs will not be happy when they make a payment and then they don’t get any attention from the Domme. By attention I don’t mean a session but I mean the sub feels that the Domme wants to know about him as a person and a sub and that she shares some common interests in Femdom beside Findom. Likewise, she informs the sub of herself as a person and a Domme. Honestly, I believe if the Domme is only interested in the tribute and nothing about the sub behind the tribute, it will not work because the Domme can’t really control the sub unless she knows the sub very well and all his weaknesses and background. Think about it in terms of chemistry. It would be difficult to have chemistry between a Domme and  a sub by just saying go buy me this gift because I want and deserve it.