They can only waste as much time as you allow...

I’m active on quite a few platforms and I find a lot of new Dommes complaining about “timewasters”. Of course, we all know that they’re out there, but then I start think, are all of these subs being accused actually guilty? I mean hell, I don’t demand a tribute from every single message I get from someone who drops in and says “hello”. I understand that sometimes there are questions. 

I just feel like maybe instead of branding every sub that doesn’t tribute before sending as a “timewaster” we should give them a few seconds to find out who we’re dealing with. Maybe they’re on the search for the right Domme for themselves. We can’t be mad every time we aren’t that person. Maybe instead of blocking a sub because they weren’t right for us, we should pass them on to a Domme who we think may be a better fit? 

Sure there are those that are indeed just there to get off on wasting our time, but don’t give them what they’re looking for by getting upset & posting screenshots and this that and the other. Warn your fellow Dommes, but don’t make a scene because that’s what they wanted to begin with. 

This may be a bit of a ramble, but just some thoughts I had brewing this morning. I’d like to know some fellow Domme and sub opinions as well!