Be yourself!

Being an (almost)60 year old woman on a Findom site that is full of gorgeous young things flaunting their assets can feel a little strange for Me sometimes, I have to admit! I think to Myself but who will honestly want to serve someone My age who doesn't play those kind of games and maybe according to some is rather too honest-if there is such a thing as being TOO honest!

I was recently given the diagnosis of multiple PTSD and I am now also battling chronic fatigue syndrome so that even writing a blog is a major achievment these days! If I tell you about these things it's most certainly not  a "sob story"-though God knows I certainly do have plenty of them to tell-which is how I ended up with the multiple post traumatic stress syndrome in the first place!

Actually I am quite proud of living through the things I have lived through and though of course it has taken it's toll somewhat, I have never and will never play the victim but I won't lie about My life either and I am not here to pretend to be something I'm not.Yes, I am a dominant woman and always have been but there's nothing glamourous about Me or My life so if that's what you look for in a Domme then it won't be Me!

I don't want or need fancy clothes,jewelery(don't wear it) and any tributes received tend to go on the care and upkeep of My animals I presently have 5 ferrets and 4 cats and to make My home comfortable.

Yes I like My luxuries too and as a woman of Greek origin good food is My greatest pleasure so a slave who enjoys ordering edible delights off Amazon for Me is ideal!

I am an extremely straightforward person and I really don't play around or act out any role to entice a slave My way-either he will like the no nonsense approach or he won't.Either he wants to serve and tribute and spoil the hell out of Me or he doesn't.

And that's that for Me really. folks-My life has been quite a journey and I've had enough of the complications and games people play and I love simplicity more than anything these days.

So,however else anyone does their Findom thing My way is just this-honest and straight to the point.

Perhaps someone will like My approach perhaps not but at least I know I haven't compromised Myself or tried to copy any other Domme and nor do I think Dommes should be telling anyone else what a Findom is or isn't etc etc Let them BE who cares how they do their thing,we are all individuals with our own stories,reasons etc so whose to say whats right and wrong in this game??

I think I will finish by quoting some Greek philosopher guy

TO THINE OWN SELF BE TRUE!