Approach thoughts

After reading a lovely blog penned by one of the boys here, I was thinking it might be nice to put my personal view out here for those curious about Me personally to read.

As a Goddess I prefer that a submissive or fetish boy interested in interacting with Me and hopefully an eye to serving Me makes the first approach. One of the many reasons why is a very simple one. Without you making yourself known I may not even know that you exist.

If a boy enters the chatroom, I will read his profile if his name is unknown to me. I read it to assure that I can place him in my mind either as UC / owned or free to serve.

Now while there I take a closer look at that profile as well. Did he put any effort into it? Has he taken the time to give US the Ladies something to be intrigued or amused by? Are there any fetishes or kinks we may have in common? Sadly from what I see on most boys profile none of that is on display or offer and so I simply pass them by.

I have done first approaches in the past with boys, but those were boys who STOOD out to Me on the merit of having placed something on their profile that had Me intrigued to wish to know more about them. Their effort in putting their profile together has stirred a curiosity in Me and gave Me a slight hope that just perhaps this was an individual which I might form a connection with. With other words I have seen potential in the execution of the most basic of things - filling out a profile and with that a generalized first introduction of self.

In most cases however I will never even know you exist, especially if you do not participate in chat, do not blog, or don't do anything else that might make you even for a split second visible.

I know some Ladies enjoy browsing the male listings on here and checking out what is on the slab so to speak. My time is limited and valuable to Me, so I tend not to do that. I do as I said pay attention to those who put them-selves out there in some measure, because to that shows interest to be noticed and engaged to Me.

I have an aversion to copy and paste approaches. Some approaches are so obviously practiced, copy and pasted and with so little effort that it is almost insulting since the boy couldn't even take the time to create something special for the Lady whose attention he wishes to engage. I tend to pretty much ignore those.

I don't like the "loser" talk at all, so when a boy starts out with a litany of loser this and that, he too goes into my trash bin. I already know that he won't be the one for me, because he doesn't write with his brain but his cock. I have no interest in the long run for this.

No I want to see the intelligent male with at least some base manners and willingness to put effort into conversing with Me to approach. I'd hope he have at least taken a look at My profile and read it. Would have visited My blog and read what I am all about. Would know how to address Me properly etc.

You are addressing a Goddess and even so in general I am an easy going person, a male with the eye to serving Me should never forget that. I am not going to sit there for days and hours chatting with you without a sign of sincerity, especially not if all you want to talk about is your fetish.

Gimme gimme fetish results in gimme gimme money. That is a rule you should have clear in your mind.

Tell Me a little about yourself when introducing yourself and that means you as the person. Oh I don't want to know your whole life story or anything that you wouldn't be able to tell a stranger safely, but at least that much I should be able to know at that point. With other words allow Me to put a human being to the screen name so I may have something to go on.

A first approach is very much like courting in a way. You show your manners, your best side, your ability to please and you hope that it is enough to make the Lady wish to know more. Motivate Me to take an interest in you!!!

Those are just a few thoughts for you.

Goddess Bella Donna