When guys act out ...

There are times when a male may step out of line when he is provoked in a very unbecoming way, there are times when someone may feel unjustly hunted and has no other resource but to put his foot down as all human being eventually must, but that is not what I am talking about.

I am talking about a guy acting out, being rude to a point that it becomes as if you have just entered the Twilight Zone in a Femdom Area, and no matter how many warnings are being given he insists on continuing with this type of behavior.

Most of the men on here behave in a way that is acceptable and some are exemplary but as of late there is a tiny group of guys who seem to find great pleasure in riling up the women and get them to pay negative attention to them.

The language used is crude, meant to be offensive and yes shall we call it what it is triggering the outrage of those watching. Result - free attention and humiliation and guess who is pulling the strings? The guy is, because he keeps getting fed that attention, gains the outrage and more.

So a little tip my darlings, you want this type of behavior to go away? As hard as it is and yes even I have run afoul of the natural reaction to want to put him back into his place until I realized that I was only feeding it, is to ignore it. Don't talk to him or about him. Simply act as if he is what he truly is, not there. For he isn't there, just a ghost which is annoying, and will go away once his attempt of disruption is foiled.

In a real time domination session when a male acts out in such rudeness he is punished, not by actions that might give him attention, but by yes you guessed it having ALL attention withdrawn from him. We call that "becoming invisible" or in some cases I at least call it "being dead to Me".

So instead of feeding into it, let's just move on and unsee those who do not deserve our attention, be they negative or positive. Good boys get rewarded....