Finding someone

So finding people with whom you mesh is quite an ordeal. Trying to make sure you are giving proper amounts of time to each person and trying to decide who is a timewaster vs. a true sub is proving to be pretty difficult. I do not want to have to do the pay before we talk thing but am looking that way. It is frustrating for both parties. I try to be equal in my time and fairness but some people are not like me and try to take advantage of me. I am very aware of those type of people and spot them Very quickly. To those who are serious I thank you. Best of luck to both the parties involved.