Real dommes vs Fake dommes.

Throughout my time i have got a lot of subs complain about having experiences with what they describe as being 'Fake dommes'.
I can't say i personally understand what a Fake domme is, but perhaps this is evident in the fact not all Dommes are compatible with all subs and vice versa.

There are many subs who enjoy tributing in return for cam sessions, and some dommes who enjoy this too.
I personally hate the dynamic of being given tributes in return for my time, for some reason i feel like i'm trying to be bought. I feel my time can not have a price attached to it, i find it disrespectful when a sub contacts me asking to Skype and offering to pay me to do so. I'm not a cam girl. If i am tributed to i want it to be because we have made some kind of connection beyond the way i look. Yes i'm pretty, but most of the women on here are, so i enjoy subs trying to get to know me a little first.

There are some women who enjoy having their body worshiped; feet, boobs, ass etc
Personally i enjoy conversing, 'worshipping' is good too but i find being worshipped strictly upon how i look to be quite reductive to who i am, i am more than just a body. I believe the greatest power comes from personality, yes beauty is powerful, but in combination with an intelligent mind it can be deadly.

There are some women who enjoy receiving tributes in return for humiliating a sub on cam.
I personally hate one off 'sessions', i hate the fact that subs will contact many women for cam time and submit temporarily to one. I'm special and should be treated that way, i don't like the idea of part-taking in a subs amusement for the day. I also feel like these kinds of subs are just in it to 'get off', i've crossed paths with many who enjoy one off 'sessions' and quite often they are full of suggestions, as though they want to humiliate themselves instead of being humiliated. The fun for me in humiliating a sub comes from the power in doing so, one off sessions don't allow me to exercise my power to it's full extent. These kind of sessions make me feel like I'm just part of a subs entertainment, when it should be the opposite.


There are some Dommes who enjoy posting photos that are particularly of just their feet, boobs, hands etc with the entire site.
I'm aware a lot of the subs here and across the globe have a number of fetishes regarding the female body, so there is a great power dommes have in sharing photographs of just their feet or legs etc. But personally i would never take a photograph that isolates one part of my body entirely to share with every sub, whether subs claim to 'worship' this or not i would feel as though i am dissecting myself into nothing but a pair of legs, boobs, feet etc. Maybe it's because i'm a photographer and have studied the sexist undertones of such photographic compositions, but it's just not something i would be comfortable with personally.

There are some Dommes who enjoy group domination
I personally don't like taking part in group drains/humiliation, unless it is a sub i own and have organised for him to be abused. I have a need to own things, i don't enjoy humiliating subs who are owned by other Dommes. I don't mind sharing with others but do not enjoy playing with subs who are not mine, i guess thats the brat in me, i'm very all or nothing.

We all have different ideas of what Dominance is, but this does not mean anyone is real or fake. Like all subs who have different needs, so do Dommes. But what i can say is that whatever our preferences are I'm sure we all collectively agree we deserve respect from you subs whether you feel you are compatible or not with the women here.