The fetish in itself for me

I've been a lifestyle domme since 2009. I however, knew about the kink lifestyle before then but never knew about the findom stuff. I learned about it from a fellow Domme. Tthen started doing foot nights as a beginning of findomming. I no longer do foot nights due to drama from the host who said bad things about a few of us. I do have a mentor that teaches me how to do sessions outside of the longline world. She is an awesome person and is a kickass Domme. I learned a lot over the years but once i joined this site in dec 2013, it really took a while to get the hang of it and learn how i can be a good findomme. I learn a lot from everyone here and even grown into learning more about myself, what i want, etc. A repeat in this. 

The subs are hiding and are shy. I communicate with them and know what i want from them. I want an honest, friendly, sweet, loyal, faithful, dedicated sub and more from them. I want them to show me their true self and know their place. And of course know to tribute and not be a flake. I get subs on here that aren't verified looking at my profile. Subs, fyi, get verified so you can be taken seriously. Ive had a few subs that I've owned that didnt work out. I figured they weren't a good match. Ill some day get one that is a good match. At least i hope so. 

About me: I'm a now 44 year old Domme. I like music, singing, and my cat. I have a wonderful boyfriend who is my lifestyle sub. He is supportive of me being a findomme. He says its a good idea. I enjoy watching various tv shows that pique my interest. I love penguins as its my favorite animals. I find them interesting, awesome, and cute. There are 18 different types. I know a lot about t hem. I see them at my local aquarium all the time. I'm a sweet, nurturing type Domme. I do have my mean side as well. I like humiliation when i feel like it. When i do that, its mostly having the sub sing, dance, dress up, write task, etc. I love wearing socks and sneakers. I do have shoes but cant wear them all the time due to ankle issues. But i do wear them for pics. I'm from Massachusetts USA. I also have ADHD so my writings can be all over the place at times. So that is a bit about myself. 

Overall, i enjoy everything. I do have hard limits as well. Those can be discussed in messages. I like tributes for messaging me and talk. I dont like my time wasted. I'm worth to be your Domme. I know my worth and know that I'm not a downer. So play your game with me. Yes, i love games. So a blog to talk more. Ill have more blogs about other thoughts. And you'll get to see them :)...so subs dont be shy to approach.