The Perfect sub? or the right conditioning?

Perfect Sub or Perfect Conditioning?

Approximately 7 months ago I connected with a sub who is very experienced within the lifestyle of financial domination and fetish play, over his lifetime he has visited many Domme's but would say he has served four of which I am the fourth. He can talk the talk and certainly walk the walk, he is not what you would call your usual "submissive", he is very aware of he wants and needs, in order to achieve though he has to be in a certain headspace.
 I see a lot of Twitter feeds, and other social media the usual tagline is DO NOT APPROACH WITHOUT A TRIBUTE, if I had taken that stance I would have missed out on SO much. I think a lot of girls cut their nose off to spite their face before they even start. If I had said that in our first conversation we would not be where we are now I know that for definite. I know this sub has what I would call 3 shades vanilla, grey, MINE. When he is in the grey area the majority of the time after a few well thought out messages I can soon push him into the MINE category which is when I can push him and TAKE, I can literally edge him on and off mentally for days constantly rinsing him.
If he is in the first state of mind in vanilla I know there is usually very little point in pushing as it is like barging against a locked door instead you have to do a series of gentle taps on the door breaking him down until he is back into the grey area and easier to manipulate. Now I know some of you are already reading this thinking that is too much work but you wouldn't if you knew just how much I was rinsing him for week on week.
Or the fact that is house is fully paid for and I will be inheriting in.
Or that when he takes an early lump sum of his pension in a couple of years I will be getting 25K of it.


There are times it gets too much for him and needs to step back, at the beginning this used to be for up to 4 weeks at a time now it is sometimes as short as 4 hours. You are probably wondering how or what I send him, nudes? custom clips? porn shots? No nothing of the sort, we talk, we are a meeting of the minds, we discuss fetish, kink, our lives, plan our next meeting, how I own him, he is my property, my bitch, my walking bank. Less and less the first personna every even appears now it is straight to purely submissive.
This week his is travelling across the country for our first real time meet up. For me to be given my own bank card to his account which we then go and use on a shopping and spending spree. Woohoo!