Advice

“Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition”. I know this is a topic that other Dommes have written about. However, I wanted to voice my opinion and perspective. Being a findomme is more work than what a lot of people might think. First, I want to say that I mean no offense to other Dommes on this site. However, just because you created an account here, doesn’t mean that you will magically get money. It takes a lot of work, and stomping your pretty little feet because no one is paying attention to you is not becoming. Even though subs see us Dommes as superior, it is still important to remember that they still have the freedom of choice and on this site they have a lot to choose from. As such, being a Domme takes ambition, determination, and a lot of reflection. You need to find your own Domme style that works for you and sets you apart. The best way to do this, especially if you’re just starting off, it to sit back and observe. There are so many Dommes that are amazing at what they do, and if you pay attention there is much to learn. However, doing exactly what they do will only get you so far and might not get you many friends. You don’t want to be a cookie-cutter Domme, so take what you learn and add your own style to it. Furthermore, take the time to get to know subs. They are all different, and have their own sub style as well. Even if they share the same kinks, it does not mean they will nessessarly like what another sub liked. When you do this you open yourself to more possibilities. Take what I say with a grain of salt, and always seek to grow. In doing so, you are more likely to find success. Best of luck, Mistress Kat