What findom means to me..

Findom to me is a form of domination ( obviously ) but that being said, its not just domination and i don't think a sub sending a tribute is him bowing down to you and giving you power over him, in some cases it might be but in most its not, most subs have a fetish for a women to take their money and belittle them while they do it, while others simply send a tribute as a form of payment for a session or a video or a picture. pretty much what im getting at is findom to me is alot more then just " losers paying " to me the money is just a perk, i'll admit it gets me excited when i wake up to tributes from my good little pets or when a sub asks me if he could have permission to send. i get a thrill out of it but thats because my fetish is money, i love getting it and i love spending it, but im getting off the subject LOL. to me findom is about the mutual respect for domme and sub, ive noticed most dommes don't care about the well being of their subs which is okay IF thats how the sub wants to be treated but we all must remember that we are all human and we all have emotions. in order for a domme/sub relationship to work their must be mutual respect and trust. i dont mind short term ownership but i do much prefer long term, findom to me is also another level of sacrifice to me, if your willing to go a day without a cig just to make sure i have some then thats what i think true sacrifice is. another thing, you dont have to be a rich sub to be a finsub, not for me anyways. a tribute is a sign of respect big or little, like i said if your wiling to go a day without something like a cig just to send me a small 5, 10 or 15 dollar tribute it makes me way happier then a sub who is rich and sends me a lets say 5,000 tribute because to me findom is sacrifice, a show of respect, a show of humility. thank you all for reading. xoxoxo