Just a small reminder that we are powerful creatures.

Okay... I am going to talk about psychology. Because among many things, Findom is a battle of psychology ....basic psychology. As a Domme, you are (with consent) manipulating, brainwashing, and molding your sub's mind-space every time you interact with them. You are recognizing his soft spots and then pushing on them. You are making him fall addicted to you. Many women do this naturally all their lives. Dommes just do it with people that ask for it.

anyway...

my point is this: "Fuck you pay me" is NOT what Findom is. It is a phrase that has been dragged through the muck and then stuck to Findom, to give it a bad rep. If you are a woman that will never use your mind and wits to CREATIVELY seduce these boys? This is not for you. If you're not good at reading people or psychology was just simply never something that excited you? This may not be for you.

We want to keep our reputation and strong, cunning, clever, quick, creative---- so please.... take this into consideration. <3

**yea I use binary terms, not because I dont want to include everyone...just for the sake of my point right now...a hypothetical situation***