What is it I want from a serving boy?

What is it I want from a serving boy? That should be the first question asked really and one that as a Lady I need to have a firm answer to. So here goes mine and hopefully in such a way that it is easy to understand.

#1 Intelligence, Respect and Manners.
Sorry I know don't put those words capitalized, but to me they are. If you are unable to offer those 3 things to me from the start, you won't go any further with me. Manners are a big one with me. It's one of those things you should have learned at your Mother's knee and if you didn't, well then I am sorry it's not my job to teach you. Intelligence is a requirement simply because I don't feel like having to repeat myself 20 times just to get one order across to you or explain you the simplest thing that I could probably teach a Chimpanzee faster. I enjoy having conversations with those who serve me and those conversations may be about anything at any giving time. If I feel as if I am talking to someone who is yet to graduate School we are not going to get along. Respect, well loves if I have to explain that one, then I am sorry to say you need to get out of BDSM period.

#2 The ability and willingness to serve ME!
Wanting to serve me and having the ability as well as willingness to serve Me are different things all together. We both can want until the cows come home, but if you don't have the ability to serve Me financially, physically and mentally, as well as the willingness to do it, you become worthless to Me. Not worthless as a human being, just worthless as a serving boy to ME!

#3 The eagerness to be conditioned and the obedience to follow that conditioning!

I don't care if you are brand new to submission or have served a million ladies in the past (well actually if you served a million ladies already you won't be serving me to be honest) one thing remains the same. You need to be eager to be conditioned to MY preferences and the way I enjoy things to be, and than you need to obedience necessary to follow that conditioning. Every Lady wants things slightly different and it's utterly unimportant to Me when it comes to your conditioning to be MY serving boy, how she wanted it. That means you will be reconditioned to suit my tastes, style, preferences etc. I can talk at you all day and night, but unless you are actually eager to be conditioned by me and obedient in following the conditioning I give you, it's just a waste of both of our time.

#4 Honesty!
Honesty is a big one and believe it or not boys, your honesty is your sub credit. If you are flaky, lie a lot, don't follow through or lie by omission then you destroy what little credibility you have with me in a hurry. I watch, I read, I pay attention, and I test those who claim to be interested in serving me. When you see me in chat I come off as a real goofball and laid back person, but when it comes to MY boys and conditioning I reign supreme period. There is nothing more disrespectful and annoying to me than boys who lie, and darlings if I catch you in a lie more than once you are out. Period. BDSM and Fetish is build on honesty, with ourselves and those we interact with, if you can't deal with that and honor that, you are not the boy for me.

#5 Understand the difference between serving me and me playing with you!
Servitude is purely for and about Me! Period! It should satisfy a need inside of you to please Me, serve Me, ease My life, make Me happy. If it doesn't do that, well then just maybe you are not cut out to be my boy or sissy. For those who are submissive and not just fetish boys, being allowed to serve me and serving me is their instant reward. It's an honor, not an imposition. Playing with you - scene time - that can be done with both fetish boys (those who are always looking for what's in it for them first and only feel submissive when it suits them) and submissives. It's fun times, play time, hot, exciting etc. but it's not serving. Again SERVING is all about Me first and foremost and if you are the right type of boy that feeds you needs automatically.

#6 Loyalty, stability, and reliability
If you want to be mine than you need to be loyal to me. Not just when I am around, but even when I am not present. I have no problems with community sluts, but I don't consider them as my boys either. Financial stability should be common sense. This is financial domination, you will be required to tribute and spoil me, you will be providing for what I desire, and you can't do that if you are not financially or mentally stable. Reliability? Well how about, I should not even have to think twice about an order I gave you being carried out promptly and perfectly. My boy needs to be reliable to the point that I can trust him completely.

#7 Always trying to do better for Me
I understand that you may start out slow and smallish and by that I mean in the $100 to $200 range if you really want to serve me. I am not talking about a tribute with no strings attached here, but about someone who is actually getting attention from me, but over time this will increase. It should, and you should want it to. If you don't sit there and think, how can I do better for My Goddess and please Her even more, then you are not in the right mindset as a submissive of mine. That should be a given over time and if it isn't, well then you don't need to be at my feet.

Here is the thing loves, I am demanding, I am experienced, and I know what I can and do require from those who wish to be one of mine. Belonging to Me is an honor, because when it comes to actually picking a boy or boys (sissies) to condition and train them as my servants, slaves, subs, pets etc. I am very picky. I am no longer easily impressed, this is not my first or even 100's Rodeo, and as far as entitlement goes... I earned mine a million times over.

I'll play with boys and take their tributes no problems if I am in the mood or bored, but that doesn't mean you will become one of my precious ones. No, those are special boys who have something special I see in them and it's a lot more than just a wallet or a dick. Matter of fact their dicks really don't interest me at all, they will be locked up more often than not by me. They are submissive men I can be 100% proud of and when I look down on their kneeling before Me form there is a smile lighting up my entire being because they are true gems in the rough I am polishing to perfection.

It takes a truly surrendered and submissive to Me boy to can make it with me and reach a collar. Velcro is not something I offer and you will earn your collar with sweat, tears, tributes, jumping through my hoops, making me laugh, and more. They will literally become the other half of Me. The ying to my yang. The jewel in my crown that I can be proud of. With other words they are about the furthest thing from losers you can get.

I always say I am greedy and darlings you best take that serious, because if you become one of mine, I will have all of you, mind, body, wallet, heart and soul. In time of course, but that is the end goal. You will become my creature.

Goddess Bella Donna