Real Time Happiness

It's been quite some time since I've been on the site, or any site really except to briefly chat with those who wished to meet in person. Life has kept me pretty busy lately in the best of ways. Online play had become mundane to me so I began to stray away from it and really focus on more real-time experiences, some have been exceptional while others had a lot to be desired, but an experience is an experience either way.

Now don't get me wrong, the occasional online session can be fun but I wanted that physical connection not just a face or words on a screen, I wanted something with substance, something with the potential of being long-term and I believe I've found that. :)

Part of my protocol for real-time is to meet in public before any real session takes place; to make sure they're not a total lunatic and it eases any nerves before the session so the play is more focused and more organic. After countless meets, some showing up, some not showing up and not hearing a word from them ever again, I met one submissive who I had been talking to regularly online for about a year. I never expected us to have as strong of a connection as we do, we met at a Dunkin Donuts not too far from me and what was supposed to be a one hour meet turned into me staying there for five hours, just talking and laughing. Forming connections with those who serve me has always been quite a big deal for me, so when I see a submissive taking the time on their own accord to build that connection as well it just pleases me immensely. Anyways, him and I have been seeing each other and playing quite often, which has kept me relatively busy, and each time is more exciting than the last, I enjoy having him around and he is the first submissive in two years that I've officially collared. I feel like I may be gushing a bit, but he's everything I seek in a submissive; someone who's company I enjoy, who isn't a mindless drone, that can hold a normal conversation without drifting off to fantasy island. He's very generous in every sense of the word, from his four hour foot rubs to his tributes, it all comes from a genuine place instead of it being forced just to enjoy living out some fantasy that is just fap fodder for later that night.

I was having a rather rough night, and he drove over an hour to come keep me company late at night, just sat there and listened as I vented and massaged my feet. It's the small things like that that mean the most to me. Someone going out of their way to ensure my happiness with zero expectations of something in return.

I don't really know where this blog was supposed to go lol I suppose just a little update, but the type of servitude I receive from this submissive is something I wish for every lovely Domme, true devotion, sacrifice, admiration, and someone that is more than just a submissive but a friend as well. Someone that understands, respects and loves that you're a human and not just some leather clad doll that caters to kink.

Happy hunting Ladies, and submissives, treat your Dommes well because you want to, you need to, you have that burning desire to make her happy on your own accord, not because you're forced to.