findoms is a small pond...

I've been thinking about this alot. We have a small pond here, and alot of "big fishes" Us Dommes, and small bait pool, pigs. Why am I mentioning this, well boys cycle through here alot, some relationships stick, while others don't work out. Hear ME when I say this, I NEVER look at another Domme and think I can do better than Her. I don't know their methods nor do they Mine, but I never compare. I do have one thing to offer now, that alot may not have the luxury of, that is TIME! I am at a point where this is My lifestyle, 24/7 I work from home, and have time for daily contact. Some boys/bois like that comfort, and it works for Me. Just because a D/s relationship doesn't work out is NOT a poor reflection on a Domme, frankly it's usually alot on the boys behavior, IMO.
When My late hubby was in the hospital, a boy I had been talking too alot, was suddenly owned, yea that DID hurt, but I had little to no time for anyone. Did I get mad, no, it was timing and circumstances. Does his last owner know W/we had history, I doubt it, do I think it was wrong, NO.
We have to be adults here, all of U/us. Subs, Don't make a bunch of promises to a Domme, and flake the minute She's gone. I don't like seeing this go on, its shady, and not how W/we work. This isn't aimed at My subs, but if ANY of them behave badly, I EXPECT to be told. If I see this going on in chat I will say something. I will NOT get angry at the bearer of bad news.
Furthermore, I don't care how fat your wallet is, if I don't feel a good connection, you will be dismissed. My time cannot be bought, it is given to those who devote themselves to Me. Listen up boys, alot of Dommes feel the same way, so if you think just because you have a "payout penalty" it gives a sub free licence to act badly, it doesn't. Money doesn't run shit here We do!

One last thing, Us Dommes should be putting effort into supporting O/our site. Advertising here is pretty affordable, and it shows a real desire to support findoms.com. I do think a Domme investing here, is smart, waiting on a boy to do it might never happen.
I'm writing this with love, and understanding, that Us Dommes have a complicated path. #DommeSisterhood!
Sincerely,
Goddess Brittany