New to Site Not to the Game! Old School Findom!

Well I thought it was time I put my creative side to work to introduce myself a little better! I am Mistress Jules, fondly known as Mistress Heroin by my oldest subs (this is his quote not mine) "After my first hit, I was so intoxicated, I felt drugged, within an hour I had to have another hit, once she is in your veins, you have to have hit at least once a day, and you will do ANYTHING to get it" and he has been with me for 10 years now, not always as a finsub, a collared slave. I love what I do, and have a very specific philosophy about all my subs, to admit to being a submissive takes courage, to admit that you fully understand that you will ALWAYS be a beta to know that you need a Dominant in your life to make it complete, which I believe deserves a modicum of mutual respect, I have always shown them love, nurtured and cared for their well being, however don't EVER confuse this with weakness, believe me I will destroy you without a backward glance. Our relationship is based on love and fear in equal measures, and the one fundamental purpose that you are there to serve ME, in any and every way I command you. As much as I absolutely delight in getting large tributes, I am not going to lie my largest ever SINGLE tribute is $1500, nowhere near as big as some of the Dommes who are lucky enough to get 6 figures etc, however what I do get, is CONSTANT tributes month on month, for example the sub from earlier has been paying for 10 years plus random tributes, gifts, I have no idea how much it would be if I added it all together. I would rather a steady income of $400 a month for 5 years, than 1 large tribute. I also make my subs aware that if they want to stop and move away from the lifestyle completely and will help them, ironically I have "cured" several finsubs, but these were subs who were so far into debt they were contemplating suicide, or committing serious crime to keep up with some Domme's demands, who KNEW but did not care. We have a HUGE responsibility of care, I am sorry but I do not agree with a lot of new practices of forcing subs into severe debt, by all means rinse subs with disposable income, or even push him to eating from the discount bucket all month, but not putting entire families in jeopardy for your bank account its sick, I don't care how gorgeous/untouchable/godlike you THINK you are. It seems to be becoming more and more common amongst the new "smart phone twitter dommes".
I was doing this while most of these girls were in primary school, when Findom was more about real time meets, and subs coming to lay money at your feet, no other agenda for the meeting just to give you money to be ignored, or to have the door slammed in their face. I also don't do this pay to be my friend on social media or to message me, most genuine subs like to converse and find out if they are a good match with a Domme, I like to find out what makes them tick and want to submit. I like to be more fun, more of a chase, but then again this is maybe because I don't chase the single hit tributes.
I know I have gone on for too long now!!! But it is something I am very passionate about, and a subject I know about and love.