How hard is it to be a good sub?

I'll let you in on a secret...it's not! Approach a domme with total respect and kindness and that will take you very far..do NOT make your wants and expectations the first thing to come out of your stupid mouth, let it be known what you can do for her because trust me there's a dumbass in every corner waiting to serve, what makes you special and worth the time to message and get to know you first? You want to be a good sub? know that all of us domme's have a different set of rules just because one gives out her messenger/skype id for free does NOT mean that others will do the same when you approach a new domme know that we are all unique in what we do and we have different sets of rules.. one of the BIGGEST...and most IMPORTANT is that you recognize that our time is precious why would I want to message you back and forth for free when my other slaves pay big bucks for the very same thing, I repeat you are are NOT special and my time is worth so incredibly much to me, you want to disrespect a domme right off the bat disrespect how much her time is worth..This is a findom site money is the main attraction here and you signed up for it now I'm not saying you have to send 1000$ before I'll even look at your message just know that money will be involved if you want to interact with me at least that is the way to prove yourself worthy..i thought all of what I said is common knowledge but evidently it is not or subs like to play stupid either way if you want to be taken serious and not offend follow these simple little tips this is like bare minimum shit.