Drunk or Sober

Recently , a circumstance would incur in My life that would switch my views . While in the past , I have always been one to actually place Trust out there and allow others to deduct points, the new twist is now they are to be gained. Findom is my pleasure, ,my hobby and Loads of fun to me. Fortunately. I am a spoiled woman thus I do not rely on Tribute, I enjoy it. In real life I am dominate on all counts , its my nature and I am both comfortable & confidant with it. Most important with it -- I am real with it. Those who are a part of my world know I do not hid behind a screen as I delight in having men do as I see fit to humor me.

I'm not wed by choice. I live it and I own it - the financial freedom to me & the Career and Homes to be. Independence to me is EVERYTHING. Don't get it twisted , once upon a time I was wed to my Slave and I did LOVE him but he Cheated thus earning him --- his KICK right out the DOOR rather than the sweet kicks i use to give him up the Azz.

I comprehend many make up both online and real-time Images of whom they choose to create . To each is own though- I pride myself on being a Dominate woman , its Sexy and Owing it -- feels Amazing. I will say here on Findoms there are quite a few just like me , for they are truly a Boss but there are also some who in fact are not . I would also say take it with a grain of salt , it happens in real life too but what can you do? The answer : dismiss and move along.

Personally when I deem someone not to be On Point or legit -- I keep it moving , but prior to that I give them my real name an address . I Do not advise this to all because we are all different in nature- I just enjoy looking into the face of one and calling them out on his or her shit. Then of course , I keep it moving- with so many an interesting Sub and Domme or vanilla to have a blast with -- there is no time to waste. Prime example and a lesser # if a sub promises you a tribute and fails to send- KEEP IT MOVING. I like to at times Blast them alone or just like leave them hanging. All depends as I enjoy a game of chess .

We all have different styles and ways of exhibiting about Dominance . Control in my eyes is picking your battles and knowing when to walk away ... no need to waste your time, energy nor resources on those not worthy of it .

One last word: Don't get to caught up in other peoples issues. Focus on you & your Harem . Build your circle and your Empire :)