What they say/ What it means

Here are a few things I'm sick and tired of hearing, when I work online - yes, I do both Professional and Lifestyle Domination (I'm a Domina, as were the Mistresses who I trained under in Upstate New York). These are things I routinely hear while in the free chat of the streaming video sites.

PLEASE NOTE: While I support those who may enjoy/ profit from some of the fetishes I have listed, I make it a point to market Myself as a CFNM-Only Domina, so those who are asking for these things are actively trying to cross a boundary, with Me, and this is what such disrespect sounds like in My head - for those of you who get what I'm saying, this is for you to have a nice chuckle in a, "it's funny, because 'it's sad, but true'," kind of way.

“What they say.”
“What it actually means.”

After you have negotiated a session and asked if they’re ready to go private: “I’m nervous.”
“I can’t afford a session, but I feel entitled to your free time and attention, so I’m going to try to milk that by having you ignore all other possible clients to ‘convince’ me to go private, since you already invested the time in the negotiation process.”

“If you (insert request here) first, then I’ll go private with you.”
“If you (insert request here) in the free chat, I can screenshot it and either sell it or jerk off to it without having to compensate you.”

“You’re not a real Domme.”
“I’m not actually interested in submitting, so I’m going to try to convince you to offer an alternative service/ erode your sense of ability to Dominate for my own personal pleasure.”

“I’m interested in cuckolding.”
“I want to watch you fuck another dude like you’re a common whore, but I know I can’t just ask you to make a porno unless you are pretending to be Dominant while being penetrated for me.”

“I am a pussy/ asshole slave.”
“I want to look at your pussy/ asshole like you’re a common whore, but I know I can’t just ask you to unless you are pretending to be Dominant while getting naked for me.”

“I’ll tribute/ I get paid (at some point in the future).”
“I bet, if you think you’re getting paid later, I can get a free session today.”

“No one can afford that!”
“I don’t think you’re worth that much, and neither should you.”

When you ask what kind of a session they’re looking for: “I don’t care how you Dominate me.”
“I’ve only ever been dominated one way, so you’d better guess my fetish correctly,” or, “I just want you to tell me to touch myself/ cum ‘for you’.”

After you tell them to pay/ you don’t do what they’re asking for: “But I LIKE you/ think you’re hot.”
“Your appearance/ my preference in women is more important to me than the fact that you are a Domme/ charging for your time.”

“Make me.”
See: “You’re not a real Domme.”

“Do you do ever do Nude Domination?”
See: “I am a pussy slave.”

"Do you do toilet play/ watersports?"
See: "I am a pussy slave."

“You’re (insert critique about physical appearance).”
See: “No one can afford that!”