Media portrayal of Findommes

From a dommes point of view, its easy to see how a sub can get aroused by the various fetish delights of findom. Our boys have to be strictly trained to keep their hands off their junk because the experience of serving us can quite easily push them over the edge.

But what about us?
With an influx of ladies flooding the scene for the "wrong reasons" we constantly see dommes point blank stating that they are different, they do this because it's their fetish. What does that mean?

To put it simply, it's not the receiving we enjoy, it's knowing that our slaves have given it to us freely. The feeling of empowerment knowing that we are so adored and unobtainable that our slaves feel they must lavish us with gifts and tributes to show us how amazing we are to them. The gesture is what makes us tick, not the amount.



When I see articles such as this one:
http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/love-sex/findom-what-is-it-financial-domination-definition-explained-a7646931.html

It makes me feel so angry. We are being portrayed as gold digging and heartless witches that ruin mens lives without a care in the world except for our bank balance.
The real findoms in this fetish care about their subs. When we are practicing our fetish we are the dominating and sadistic mistresses that our slaves crumble before, but this is only a fraction of the time we spend with our subs. My subs are important to me, their well being is important to me and I care for them in a special way.
The fact that the media make it sound so easy to be a financial domme opens the gates to the wrong sort of women. Those women are only in it for what they think is Easy money and have no intention of developing a solid relationship with their subs. They are the Ones that ruin lives with their lack of knowledge and experience. By the time they have left the scene after getting bores of a failed "get rich quick scheme" we are the ones picking up the pieces.

I have half a mind to contact this gossip rag and put them straight, but will it make any difference? One unhappy sub has broadcasted his personal demons to the world, is the damage now done? It reads as if we are taking advantage of men with mental health issues and addiction junkies. We know better ofcourse but is there still hope for the fetishes image?