I've always had a strong interest in dominant women but out in the real world I always seem to find ... View moreI've always had a strong interest in dominant women but out in the real world I always seem to find myself with submissive or vanilla ones.I thought I would see what's possible to find online through reddit/Twitter and quickly discovered that being a sub is where i belong. Submission to a woman feels natural and i would like to find the one i could give that to for real. A woman like that who I could actually connect with and surrender control to.I am open to findom as well. The concept of that makes sense because a woman who can have control over the ultimate symbol of power in this world (finances) would really be in a position of authority and wouldn't just be playing some role.I don't have a ton of experience but I'm eager to learn and have always been open minded. Meeting the right woman and learning how to become what she wants me to be would be amazing. My own kinks are along the lines to power exchange, teasing and denial, orgasm control, humiliation, cuckolding, body worship...and I'm open to a lot more.I'm 36 years old and financially stable with 12 years in the military. No wife or kids. I'd preferably like to find something that leads to some kind of long term arrangement but I'm open regarding that too.The most important thing to me is to actually find someone I can connect with, talk to, and actually want to submit to.If this is anything like what you might be looking for and you're willing to work with someone who is fairly new please let me know.