CopperLotus

I orchestrated an early surprise for my slave, kitten, this morning. The slave will be passed off to a good friend of mine, two days before his birthday. He will be considered fully enslaved to Queen Demonia on the dates of Aug 1st to Aug 2nd, 2021. This is a perfect way to make the slave understand that he is nothing but property. He is a wallet, a play thing, or someone to be ignored at my discretion. This is the first time we have ever done anything like this. We trust and look forward to the...

I've been approached by some of the newer Dommes, by how they should handle subs. This is a response I wrote, that may help or not, but figured let's just share for the masses.  So, this is a fetish/lifestyle for me. For many it  is a job, etc. So I look for 'submissives'. And many look for 'customers'. You should read up on BDSM, power exchange, role reversals, and fetishes, SSC, etc. Those types of things can be lifestyle oriented or professionally done. Dominatrix is a professional, and a ...

I've seen some wonderful blogs regarding submissives, and their opinions, and their experiences. I wanted to share something that I think most Domme's experience. Starting off any new relationship whether it be friendly or with the intent of ownership with a sub, there comes a moment during the initial tribute and scene, where things are flowing quite well. And the Domme commands the sub to make some tributes, possibly even over several days. This is also why it is a great show of whether a sub ...

I honestly dont even know where to begin with this. I chatted with a sub on this site for a month. We had some "fun", he submitted to me as expected, and we even chatted on vanilla terms. Covid-19 blew up, and for about a week things sort of.. were eh. Hard to get that feeling going once its derailed, especially in the beginning. We both agreed, long term domination was our end goal. However, in the beginning of a financial femdom relationship I like to test limits. A boy says he can not offer, ...

The fetish and life style we all enjoy can really play a number on your psyche. This goes for Dommes and subs alike. We all know the ratio of men to Women is not equal. Certain boys who like to flitter from one to the next, well, theyve created a sort of reaction from most Dommes. In my case? I whole heartedly expect a submissive to tribute, wank, disappear. It may not happen in that order, but that is certainly the expectation. A word used to describe that emotion? Jaded. I've become jaded in m...

I've been neglecting my self care for a month or so. Yesterday, I decided to get a pedicure as well as a manicure. There are times when a Goddess can be overworked, and simply need that time alone. No subs, no real life, just that Me time everyone eventually needs. Yesterday for about an hour was my Me time. However, once finished it provided a wonderful opportunity to exploit and use my property for my own pleasure. ...

kitten received his new cocklet cage about a week ago. We  bought it during a sale, and he says the fit is comfortable for daily use. As well as easy to clean. I do miss the aesthetic of the plastic lock with numbers, however this has a more refined sense. He's such a good weak  sissy, dont you agree? We restarted the clock on his orgasm denial, as I played with him some last week. If I'm not mistaken the material is sillicone. This is in reference to Miss Alley's post regarding the materials...

Owning a finsubs credit card used to be an actual goal of mine. To develop the trust between another, where I spend - they pay? Sounds like an absolute girl's best day. I came across a little slave around 5 years ago that indulged in that goal alongside me. He signed me as an authorized user to one his cards. The rush of power, of dominance - of complete control was absolutely exhilirating. I spent like it was no tomorrow! I'd have to say that experience is what helped me realize how interest, a...

kitten and I recently discovered the delightful toys of lovense.com. They're bluetooth/wireless sex toys for long distance interactivity. I did have the opportunity to use one with one of my new subs, but look forward to using it on my slave. The app was easy to navigate, and understand. I've practiced and had kittenbitch purchase the hush plug, size small. There was a rush of power, dominance, and control when using the toy. Was a delight to see the sub squirm and beg from a reaction to a stimu...

The best part about BDSM, is there it can come in so many variations. Each Domme has their style, and each sub has their own way to submit. It's the joining of the two, and making that power exchange last that lead to a wonderful journey. My question to the community, is.. Can friendship and D/s work well together? There are some that enjoy topping 24/7, being as strict as possible, as rough as possible - without ever taking a step back. And there are some who enjoy 'scenes'. These are moments o...

A fellow Domme recently posted about how there are male members who claim they are college students, and can not offer a tribute. I've heard this line, as well as, I have to wait till paycheck day. This got me thinking about why subs do this, and why we sometimes as Dommes, entertain the silly madness. There comes a time where excuses are simply too much, and a boy is given too many chances. I've entertained the "I was away on business", but yet the fool still logged in and added Dommes, and for...

I am a woman that enjoys a total power exchange with my property. That means once trust is established both ways, we work towards me having as much control as possible. I have reached that with my hubby subby and my kitten.There's something powerful in demanding something, and having it given without hesitation. Thee's something powerless in giving, submitting to the will of the one you wish to serve. It can be addicting... I told him I needed a credit card. No doubt, no worries, absolute ...